Mindfulness &

how to be aware in an unaware world

Tag: life

  • Time

    Time

    “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.”
    – Steve Jobs

    Looking at what Apple has become today, we can see that Steve’s vision has been more than realized since his death. He spent his time living his own life, doing what he loved: innovation and entrepreneurship.

    And he’s right, we only have so many waking hours in a day (about 14-16 hours), so why not use them efficiently?

    It’s less about the number of hours outside work and necessities than about utilizing those free hours available.

    Strangely, I find myself utilizing my free time most efficiently when I have a crunch time to do it (like 4 hours or so after or before work) (like Tim Ferriss famously advocates).

    Reflection

    As unproductive as it sounds, doing nothing allows us to be more efficient in all we do.

    It’s kin to an engine that runs all day and all night, for hours on end, without pause for oil and cooling. At that rate, it will overheat and burn out.

    The same applies to us, we must pause to replenish and restore our mind and body by, well, doing nothing.

    As we practice awareness, we find that balance between all that consumes our waking day, that balance of work, life, and all that falls through the cracks.

    Since I like to get personal on here, I’ll just lay out my day as an example. (My secret? Pen, Paper, and a little orange app called Streaks):

    07:00-08:00
    *Wake Up
    *3min Cold Shower
    *Workout
    Meditation
    Journal
    Vitamins, Minerals, and Breakfast

    08:00-18:00
    Work
    Protein, Carbs, and Lunch

    18:00-22:00
    *Swim and 40min Sauna
    Fruits, Veggies, and Dinner
    Blog Post & Electronic Mix
    *Practice Spanish
    *Meditation
    Read for an hour
    Wind Down

    I’ve starred the activities I need to focus on much more as this is my ideal day, not necessarily my every day right now.

    Something to keep in mind is when we miss an activity, it’s much better to forgive ourselves and focus on getting it done the next day rather than stress out and beat ourselves up over it (at least that’s what I do).

    Encouragement

    Try pausing a few times throughout the day, even for 3-5 minutes, to notice how the mind and body feel.

    Write down a rough draft of what you want to accomplish throughout the day, starting with the items you need to especially focus on.

    Do you feel you’ve gained a little more awareness of where your time is going?

    Thanks

    I’m changing things up a little here by shooting for shorter posts and aiming to release them at a more consistent rate.

    Thank you for reading these and emailing me all the encouragement ya’ll! I realize that not everyone has the time to read, so I’m working on audio versions of these posts that I hope will turn into a podcast soon, so stay tuned!

    Links

    1. Revisiting “The 4-Hour Workweek” | The New Yorker
    2. 5 Science-Backed Ways Taking a Break Boosts Our Productivity | HuffPost Life
    3. Streaks App
    4. Tim Ferriss: Smash fear, learn anything | TED Talk
  • Nature

    Nature

    Impermanence: noun: the state or fact of lasting for only a limited period of time: “He describes the impermanence of nature’s existence.”

    As I was walking through the apartment complex I called home back in Nashville, I noticed with a strange intensity a tree that stood at the back of the apartment. For some time, I sat and stared up at the large oak.

    I noticed how the steadfast tree was the perfect example of impermanence.

    It rarely moves or falters. Its branches sway and fall, but its trunk stays grounded. Its leaves change color through the seasons and fall softly to cover the ground beneath it, but return again vibrant in the spring. Heavy winds strike its body, but its roots reach deep and wide, holding it steady.

    I also noticed the change in my own life, moving seven times in five years, and now to the place I was in then, which was the most comfortable and enjoyable place I had ever lived. I had been so caught in rumination at one moment and then calm and content at another.

    Constant changes in nature remind us to step back, letting all things take their course.

    And all things live in unison too. Giving, taking, destroying, building, hurting, healing. All things die to provide life (and death) again. Trillions of times a second. It’s as if nature is telling us to create balance and to admire that balance all the while it occurs.

    Our admiration of this world sets us apart from all other creatures, plants, and microorganisms. It is an incredible gift to be aware of admiration.

    Changes in nature also remind us of an infinite cycle. Plants and animals, bacteria and viruses, all live in accordance with their nature. A symbiotic relationship between every living thing.

    Changes in one thing affect everything. The wind, for example, affects the bees mating, the birds nesting, and the trees’ strength. It affects that monsoon that was supposed to go south or the fire that was supposed to go east. It affects us from doing stuff or going places.

    The natural world and the human-made world are woven together like an intricate rug. Remembering this daily comes with great appreciation and joy.

    When we slow down, step back, and observe these two worlds around us, it opens up the sense of wonder that every child possesses.

    Nature’s impermanence is beautifully captured in the steadfastness of a tree. It serves as a reminder that all things change and evolve, yet maintain a certain balance.

    The profound interconnectedness of all living beings and their symbiotic relationship is highlighted. Changes in one aspect can have a ripple effect on everything else.

    By slowing down and observing the natural world and our surroundings, we can rediscover a sense of wonder and appreciation.

    I encourage you (as I encourage myself) to take some time today to explore your immediate environment.

    Look for nature in unexpected places, like a bird, a bee, the wind softly against your skin, a striking sunset, a drop of rain, or a steadfast tree.

    Take a moment to reflect on the concept of impermanence and how it manifests in your own life.

    Three more things:

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