Mindfulness &

how to be aware in an unaware world

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  • Dunes

    Dunes

    Warm light sinks slightly below the dunes as we reach the slopped edge of the sun-sketched mountain of sand.

    To my left, I spot a fellow wanderer hiking the dune’s sunken ridge line. I dipped down slightly, reaching into my right pocket for my phone, and quickly snapped this photo without hesitation.

    The day is August 18, 2018, around six in the afternoon, and the sun is still swollen in the sky. My mother and I are standing in the mesmerizing White Sands National Park in Southern Colorado.

    This is by far one of the most beautiful national parks I have ever visited and I highly recommend a visit.

    It’s magical seeing miles and miles of enormous sand dunes scattered right below the vibrant, tree-covered Rocky Mountains and next to the brilliant blue Lake Lucero.

    You can rent waxed sand boards and sleds at the entrance to lug up the steep, sliding dunes or climb to the top much faster than the sand toy-carrying wanderers. And wander you will, for there’s no real destination at Great Sand Dunes National Park, only the one you have set in mind and care to reach.

    For those who do choose to use a sandboard or sled, remember to use a lot of the wax provided, it will slide across the sand much better.

    Some parts of the sand are harder packed than others, so a fall will feel like being punched by a pro boxer, trust me, I thought I broke my tailbone on one fall!

    Luckily, I’m practically made out of stainless steel, so I walked out, or I should say slid out without as much pain to my body as there was to my ego.

    As we walked out of the park, exchanging stories of other dunes we visited while living in the Middle East, my mother and I took one look back at the gorgeous, toppling sand as the sun said its farewell and slipped out of sight, returning darkness to the Earth and coolness to our sunburnt faces.

    Link it up, baby:

    1. Six Places to Spot the World’s Most Breathtaking Sand Dunes
    2. A 2-Day Colorado National Park Trip Itinerary
    3. Colorado National Parks List & Map

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  • Fruit

    Fruit

    “But the Fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. And the greatest of these is love, for all things abide in love, and all things must have love; for without love, no relationship would exist.”
    – Galatians 5:22

    Whether or not you believe in God or ascertain to Christianity, the Bible is a grand book filled to the brim with wisdom and life lessons applicable to every one of us.

    For example, this verse in Galatians lays out the foundation for an intentional, purposeful life.

    It’s quite logical that without love, no purposeful life would exist and no relationship would exist either (unless transactional, which I’d argue is no relationship worth holding).

    Defining each fruit of the spirit for ourselves provides a better grip on their meaning with the intention of including them in our lives.

    I firmly believe that all of these fruits are able to grow in us if their seeds are planted at birth. They may already be abundant and ripe in your own life today.

    Below are definitions of each fruit, my personal definition, a question, and examples of how to include them in our lives.

    Love

    • An emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment.
    • A virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection.
    • The unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another.
    • Compassionate and affectionate actions towards others and towards one’s self.

    Love is driving three hours to visit a sibling in the hospital without the slightest hesitation. It is the most innate expression we humans possess, a gift that has profound impact.
    What does love look like to you?
    Show a friendly smile, lend a helping hand, or give your time and attention to someone in need.
    This is love.

    Joy

    • A feeling of great pleasure and happiness.
    • The natural reaction to the work of God, Higher Power, or Creator, whether promised or fulfilled.
    • Joy expresses God’s kingdom and influence on earth.

    Joy is a grin from ear to ear for no apparent reason whatsoever.
    What people, places, or things make you joyful and jubilant?
    Write down three things you’re grateful for each day, and tell them to a person you admire in your life.
    This is Joy.

    Peace

    • Freedom from disturbance; quiet and tranquility.
    • An occurrence of harmony characterized by lack of violence, conflict behaviors, and the freedom from fear of violence.
    • The absence of hostility and retribution.

    Peace is fear and worry washed away like the receding tide.
    What can provide a peace that surpasses all comprehension?
    To calm the body and mind, breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth several times.
    This is Peace.

    Patience

    • The ability to wait, or to continue doing something despite difficulties.
    • To suffer without complaining or becoming annoyed.

    Patience is the contentment in waiting on a loved one for hours and then exclaiming with a smile, are you ready?
    How can you show patience today?
    Next time you’re waiting for someone or something, notice your immediate environment with curiosity, what do you see, hear, smell, and taste?
    This is Patience.

    Kindness

    • The quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate
    • A behavior marked by ethical characteristics.
    • A pleasant disposition and concern for others.

    Kindness is the simple act of sharing a smile while passing by a stranger. It should not be understated, especially in these tumultuous times.
    What is a random act of kindness feel like to you?

    Give someone a genuine compliment, open the door for someone, or bake a loaf of banana bread for your neighbor.
    This is Kindness

    Goodness

    • The quality of being good, in particular: virtue; moral excellence, qualities of character or conduct that entitle the possessor to approval and esteem.
    • Goodness is the simple word for the general quality recognized in character or conduct.

    Goodness is listening deeply to your conscience.
    What makes something right or wrong to you?
    When you next consider the implications of a choice, consult a true friend or therapist before deciding.
    This is Goodness.

    Faithfulness

    • True, devoted, staunch, constant, and loyal behavior.
    • Implies qualities of stability, dependability, and devotion.
    • A long-continued and steadfast fidelity to whatever one is bound to by a pledge, duty, or obligation.

    Faithfulness is the overwhelming feeling of gratitude expressed when you are loyal to a friend for years.
    Who is that person in your life?
    Commit to being there for a friend the next time they request your assistance.
    This is Faithfulness.

    Gentleness

    • To be mild in temperament or behavior; kind or tender.
    • To be noble or having the qualities attributed to noble birth; courteous; chivalrous.

    Gentleness is the care of a mother for her child as it sleeps soundly in her arms.
    How can you show a gentle gesture today?
    Provide some words of encouragement, give someone a hug, or listen intently in your next conversation.
    This is Gentleness.

    Self-control

    • The ability to control oneself, in particular one’s emotions and desires, or the expression of them in one’s behavior.

    Self-control is the release of anger despite the inclination to lash out at your coworker for not doing their job.
    How can you show self-control in the next difficult situation?
    Write down how you feel when you feel (no really, it makes a massive difference).
    This is Self-control.

    Links for daaays:

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  • Nutrition

    Nutrition

    I’ve heard it said before that good nutrition can be summed up in seven simple words: Eat real food, mostly vegetables, in moderation.

    Mindfulness reminds us to pause and pay more attention to what we put in our bodies.

    Try spending your meal away from any screens, books, or even calls to  fully experience the simple act of eating. Focus on how the food tastes, how it looks, the texture, and quality as you eat.

    Being more mindful about what, how much, and even when you eat and drink goes a long way. This is purposeful, passive consumption rather than an inexpressive, impassive one.

    Mindful eating has the power to change the things you eat too, thus replacing common unhealthy items with more nutritional ones.

    When we are distracted while we eat, there is a much greater chance that we notice less of the nutritional content of the food and therefore eat less nutritional items.

    Below are a few nutrition tips and tricks that could further help out:

    Moderation is Key

    Alvise “Luigi” Cornaro, an Italian nobleman living in the early 15th Century, lived to be 102 at a time when the average life expectancy was 35.

    Cornaro was told by physicians early in his life to abandon overindulgence for strict moderation in the amount and type of food he ate.

    Having listened to his doctors, Cornaro writes what changed in a journal entry:

    I accustomed myself to the habit of never fully satisfying my appetite, either with eating or drinking — always leaving the table well able to take more. In this, I acted according to the proverb: “Not to satiate one’s self with food is the science of health.”

    Moderation extends life expectancy by up-regulating autophagy, which is another way of saying it accelerates the body’s natural process of removing the cellular debris that causes disease.

    A variant of this is intermittent fasting, which consists of periodically fasting for 16-24 hours.

    Cornaro wrote that each person should experiment for themself which foods and drinks and in what quantities agreed with him or her.

    Maybe moderation can work for your lifestyle, maybe not, but it never hurts to try, as Coronado puts it, “leaving the table well able to take more”.

    Collagen

    Collagen is a unique, sticky, fibrous protein that prevents the skin, joints, and organs from sagging, collagen is mostly found in skin, bones, cartilage, and fascia (a tissue that surrounds muscles).

    Consuming a large amount of collagen has numerous benefits:

    – Increases our skin’s elasticity levels, contributing to that famous “younger looking skin” especially in women.

    – Improves joint function

    – Enhances muscle size, strength, and control, especially in men.

    – Protects the liver from the effects of alcohol.

    Collagen can be consumed in two ways: by slow-simmering an animal’s carcass, eating any meat cartilage, or the more popular way of drinking hydrolyzed collagen powder.

    Either way is effective and supplies the body with a good amount of collagen. I personally take 2 tablespoons of collagen powder with 4 tablespoons of protein powder each morning.

    Anti-inflammatory Foods

    This consists of a diet rich in vegetables — especially dark-colored greens like broccoli and cabbage — as well as Omega 3 rich foods like fish, egg yolks, and grass-fed meats.

    It also consists of specific spices and herbs that on am ounce-per-ounce basis are very potent compared with other foods, for example:

    – Just half a teaspoon of ground cinnamon has as many antioxidants as half a cup of blueberries!

    – And just half a teaspoon of dried oregano has the antioxidant power of 3 cups of raw spinach!

    The three famous inflammation crushers include:

    Turmeric: Turmeric is an essential spice, add it to salad dressings, meat or fish marinades, or a cup of warm tea. Take it with black pepper to increase its bioavailability.

    Cayenne Pepper: Cayenne Pepper, which contains capsaicin, a compound responsible for the spice’s spicy taste. Make sure to add spices only after the food is fully cooked and ready to eat as the spice will lose its potency when added during cooking.

    Ginger: Ginger is a spice that’s been used for hundreds of years to pacify sore muscles, throats, aches and fatigue. Add it to a warm cup of tea, chew on ginger candy, or just eat it raw if that’s your thing.

    Many foods incite inflammation and many chronic diseases result from inflammation. Keeping inflammation in check allows us to achieve optimal functioning, immunity, energy, and mental clarity.

    Vitamin K2

    Vitamin K2 is a very important vitamin that activates a protein called MGP or Matrix Gla Protein. MGP essentially helps our body absorb calcium from the foods we eat and then move that calcium from our bloodstream into our bones. MGP is found in a number of body tissues and is present in our bones, cartilage, heart, and kidney.

    Vitamin K2 also helps keep our arteries flexible for proper blood flow and supports that blood flow to the brain. Vitamin K2 is found in high amounts in foods like egg yolks and full-fat cheese as well as D3+K2 Supplements.

    Vitamin Q

    Vitamin Q, otherwise known as Coenzyme Q10 or CoQ10 is a component found in every cell in the human body. Our body naturally produces it and uses it to provide the energy our cells need for growth.

    CoQ10 also seems to lower cholesterol levels by acting as an antioxidant, removing harmful molecules from the body.

    After taking a CoQ10 supplement found at any local drug store, the body feels lighter and will be able to handle more damage.

    Macadamia Nuts

    Macadamia nuts and the oil it produces have a high concentration of monounsaturated fats and oleic acid that also help promote HDL Cholesterol.

    Coconut Oil

    Lastly, coconut oil is another incredible way to maintain weight. It’s antimicrobial, antihistamine, and antidiabetic. It’s also a way healthier way to fry food.

    Research was taken from naturalhealthresponse.com and the book Secrets of Underground Medicine by Health Sense Publishing

    Five more things on Nutrition:

    1. What is good nutrition anyway?
    2. The best time to drink coffee, or caffeine in general.
    3. Net positive contribution to total fluid consumption haha.
    4. The art of living long according to Luigi Cornaro.
    5. Michael Pollan’s seven rules for eating.

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