Mindfulness &

how to be aware in an unaware world

Tag: pause

  • Nothing

    Nothing

    “Doing nothing is better than being busy doing nothing”.
    – Lao Tzu

    Doing nothing is surprisingly difficult. It requires a shift in thinking that our time must always be occupied, our to-do list must always be filled, and the busier we are the better.

    In this non-stop culture, we herald those that ‘get sh*t done’ and seem to do a million things daily, but we forget how stressful and unbalanced that person can be.

    Anytime we do too much of anything, one after the other, we forget to pause.

    Reflection

    Multi-tasking, as I see it, is a myth. The mind can only truly focus on one thing at a time. The more we do, the less attention we have to devote to a single task.

    Dopamine is released in rapid succession in the brain, increasing the heart rate and stimulating the nervous system.

    That feeling of constant productivity can feel good for a short while, but in the long run, it has adverse effects by actually encouraging a less productive cycle over time.

    Our ancestors held roles that consisted of one task at a time, which reduced stress and increased overall contentment with completion, they were more mindful of their productivity.

    Now please don’t misread this, doing nothing doesn’t imply watching Netflix all day or doom-scrolling TikTok until the mind blows up.

    It means pausing, reassessing what and why we are doing something (work or personal), and then moving forward in a clear, concise direction.

    Mindfulness is the deliberate act of noticing the present moment in an open and kind way, or in other words, the simple yet profound act of doing nothing.

    The Good Ole Dictionary defines mindfulness as the practice of purposely bringing one’s attention to the present moment without evaluation, a skill one develops through meditation or other training.

    As a therapeutic technique, mindfulness has the potential to change our lives in positive ways. When mindful, we are naturally kinder, more compassionate, and clear-headed.

    The present is a gift for all to discover. Our only job is to notice when the mind has been lost in thought, judgment, or sensation and softly return to the breath or another object bound to the present.

    Judgment and criticism are thoughts, no different than thinking about what to eat for breakfast or what project to work on.

    When seeing it this way, the object is the same: see the judgment, recognize it, and then let it pass.

    Encouragement

    I encourage us to reflect on what mindfulness means in our lives. Take 3 to 5 minutes to write down or think of what activities and experiences bring you a sense of contentment.

    And yes, I encourage us to meditate for at least 10 minutes each day, building the foundation of a lifelong practice of doing what we truly enjoy by doing nothing for just a fraction of the day!

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    Three Links

    1. Niksen: Embracing the Dutch Art of Doing Nothing 
    2. The Most Productive People Make the Time for Doing Nothing
    3. Embrace the Zen of “Doing Nothing”
    4. TAOISM | The Art of Doing without Doing (Extra Link)
  • Photography

    Photography

    “Photography is nothing short of a miracle; a window into humanity, and a time machine in our pocket.”

    While sitting in a picturesque, instagramable library called Starfield in Seoul, South Korea, sipping on a warm latte, and observing all these people running around frantically taking photos of the place, I had this realization:

    Photography is less about the actual process of taking photos and more about mindfully observing a subject. Whether it is captured or not isn’t the point.

    Reflection

    I can think of no better use of the common phrase, “quality over quantity” than in photography. What defines a gifted photographer or any artist for that matter, is quality creations not mere quantity of works.

    I believe that playing the numbers game is not art, it’s business (and it ought to belong there).

    It’s like when Ben Stiller in The Secret Life of Walter Mitty encounters a world-renowned photographer in some epic mountain range waiting for a rare snow leopard to emerge from a cave.

    Upon finally seeing the leopard emerge from the cave, the seasoned photographer decides not to take the photo he’s waited so long for, but rather to observe the leopard in reverence and awe.

    It’s observation, not capture that is the point of that scene. The greatest photos on Earth, I’d defend, are not taken at all.

    I’ve been capturing moments ever since my father gave in and gave me his old Canon XTi when I was about 11 years old.

    From then on I absolutely fell in love with the process of photography, but more importantly, the act of observation through the camera’s lens. A separation from the outside world and my perspective of it.

    Naturally, I’m a horribly and easily distracted person, making observation quite a task, but with a daily meditation practice, photography became more of a mindful activity than a creative endeavor.

    As in all forms of art, there comes quite a bit of praise and criticism, which I found difficult to navigate until I remembered, “Oh shit, this has nothing to do with the photo, but rather the seconds or even minutes before the photo”. I realized the point was to pause, think back, and tell a story.

    And I began thinking about my thinking when I captured a certain photo. Remembering all that took place inside and outside my head.

    Then I wrote long, descriptive captions on almost every photo I published on Instagram (not the most common approach mind you).

    I want to show those who stumble upon my memories that there is so much more going on behind the photo than the photo itself can capture.

    Encouragement

    From the simplest drop of rain sliding down a window pane to the awestruck beauty of the Northern Lights or the sighting of a rare and beautiful thing, there are so many moments of paralyzing awe.

    I encourage us to observe ourselves observing the world around us. What moments are meant to simply be observed and what moments call us to capture, caption, and share?

    It is knowing that those moments that stop us in our tracks and require our entire attention are the same moments not meant to be captured. 

    With a little bit of mindfulness, you’ll be surprised by the amount of those moments in a single day.

    I am so thankful for the journey in photography I’ve taken since picking up a camera 18 years ago and so excited for a new chapter in observing this big, beautiful, strange, and ever-changing world.

    Want to see and read some of the moments I did choose to capture? They are sprawled all over my Instagram.

    Links

    1. The scene from The Secret Life of Walter Mitty
    2. The evolution of photography
    3. The way to take an amazing photo

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