Mindfulness &

how to be aware in an unaware world

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  • Gratitude

    Gratitude

    “For my part, I know nothing with any certainty, but the sight of the stars makes me dream.” – Vincent Van Gogh

    It’s true, there is much we can discern with certainty nowadays, but there is also so much we don’t know, like what gives life meaning and where heaven is in all the universe.

    The sight of the stars makes Van Gogh dream, and these questions of meaning and heaven make me dream!

    I believe that what makes us even want to dream in the first place is a beautiful yet simple practice called Gratitude.

    Gratitude results in the posture: never regret a single day in your life.

    There are good days, bad days, best days, and worst days. The good days give happiness. The bad days give experience. The worst days give lessons. The best days give memories.

    The good days are most days. When we look at gratitude as medicine and take it every day, we find that it really does make us healthier, inside and out.

    If you’re the product of your environment, then change your environment.

    If you’re the sum total of your thoughts, then change your thoughts.

    If you’re the influence of the 10 people you most surround yourself with, then change who you surround yourself with.

    We tend to think we are having a bad day because of factors we can control but just don’t choose to. The bad days are those rare days that something really bad happens and are deserving of feeling like crap about it.

    The bad days are rare only when we remember that most days are actually amazing and showered in blessings. The air we breathe, the water we drink, and the food we eat are all blessings, and they are provided every day to 90% of us.

    It is even okay to have a bad day every now and then, to feel that pain, loss, hurt, disappointment, or struggle, and to know the next day will get better.

    The best days are those days when you’re on top of the world and nothing can go wrong. Something amazing could have happened, you fell in love, you won the lottery, or you had a baby.

    These are the days we all look forward to, revel in, and remember forever. It is good to soak them up, enjoy them when they come, but also know that they too will pass, just like the bad days.

    The worst days are those that bring us to our knees, reminding us that we are really such fragile beings. They are the days of great loss, tragedy, and shock. When we lose a job, lose a friend or family member, and lose ourselves.

    The worst days, however, teach the best lessons. Despite the difficulty or tragedy, the ability to get through the worst days always makes us stronger.

    Through all of these types of days, there is also the ever-present lesson of impermanence, that everything is in a constant state of change, and for every low, there is a high.

    This doesn’t make the highs better and the lows worse; this means we can let go of any effect they have on us when we step back.

    Mindfulness makes us aware of impermanence, naturally bringing us to a place of peace in all the change.

    Gratitude makes us thankful for impermanence, reminding us that there is so much to be thankful for even amongst the change.

    Here are a few questions that can help you find more gratitude in your life!

    When in your life were you super grateful for something or someone?

    What are 10 things you are grateful for today?

    Why are you grateful for those things?

    How can you find a little more gratitude in your day today?

  • Today

    Today

    “Let others praise ancient times; I am glad I was born in these.”
    – Ovid

    I love this quote because although there are plenty of reasons to wish we lived in other times, there is so much to be thankful for in today’s day and age:

    • We have lower rates of large-scale wars, especially WW1 and 2.
    • There are numerous technology and convenience advancements
    • Medical advancements have increased life expectancy
    • We have the ability to travel practically anywhere in the world
    • There is universal education and access to open knowledge
    • We have sustainable technologies like renewable energy
    • Conservation efforts are in place to preserve ecosystems
    • Human rights have made huge strides toward inclusivity
    • Unparalleled access to entertainment and creativity through the internet
    • Better than ever work-life balances and opportunities

    One of the wildest realities today is that physical work has been reduced due to automation and thanks to machines. This means there is more time for intellectual and creative pursuits.

    I am truly glad to have been born in 1994 and grown up through the rise of the internet, increased stability, and global prosperity.

    The awareness of this moment includes the massive amount of convenience we have to be thankful for: cars, trains, planes, phones, TVs, and endless travel. 

    The world is a big, beautiful place and it is a gift to travel to such diverse lands.

    There was a time, not that long ago at all, that it was extremely uncommon to leave your state, let alone your country; and now we can affordably fly just about anywhere in the world.

    If you were to tell a farmer in the early 19th century this, they would look at you in disbelief and probably call you crazy.

    You can travel continents in hours where as ancient journeys would have taken months.

    Today, we can make and reach out to friends worldwide, share thoughts instantly, and access a network of support in hard times; how crazy is that!

    Stopping to think about just medical advancements alone is insane:

    • We have eradicated diseases like smallpox.
    • We have treatments for HIV and some cancers
    • We have drastically improved vaccines
    • We have raised the global life expectancy by 40 years in the past 100 years

    The world is at relative peace, minus some war-torn areas like Ukraine, and El Salvador, and some dictatorships like Russia and North Korea.

    There are still enough resources for everyone, and the standard of living has increased globally.

    To recognize the significance of today means living presently in the fact that we are so blessed with this age.

    This does not, however, diminish some of the harsh realities of today, nor does it excuse what must be fought for: like social equality, fundamental human rights, or environmental protection.

    We live in an incredible age, but we must take care of it, improve it, and cherish it.

    I encourage you to write down three things you personally are thankful for in today’s age.

  • Art

    Art

    “Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.” – Pablo Picasso

    Children see the world from a lower point of view. A child’s eye level and perception of the world are much lower than most adults.

    We forget about this perception as we gradually grow up. It’s so subtle that we barely notice the shift outside witnessing a child’s behavior.

    This eye-level perception directly dictates our behavior. If what we see more and more often is goodness, then we will behave as if we are blessed. But if what we see more is degrading, then we will behave in an unsatisfied and prideful manner.

    A bowl of fruit vs a box of doughnuts left on the kitchen table, we are not only what we eat, but we are also what we constantly see (visual cues).

    But alas, I’m getting off track. Art is the expression of the soul, and children are the expression of untainted joy. The lens through which children see the world is much bigger and much more fun than adults!

    Art is created with this imaginative perspective children employ naturally. The mind of a child is a free, vibrant, and artistic place.

    Art is a creative expression. Children are creative, imagining that anything is possible and no limits can thwart their ideas!

    Art is a curious expression. Children are curious, asking a million questions that seem to come from nowhere, but that mindset and inquisitiveness is what changes the world.

    Art is a practice in failure. Children are not afraid of failure, hell they don’t even have a grasp on the concept of failure until later in life, this allows for some pretty awesome ideas to flourish past the giving-up phase.

    Art is hard work. Children play hard, on a jungle gym, playing tag, or just doodling, there is an immense amount of excitement, energy, and focus going on in children that we can apply to our activities and work.

    Art is an open practice. Children have open minds, they don’t care about race, religion, or socioeconomic status when it comes to playing and they are not scared to tell someone they like them.

    Ever forget how to act and play as a child? Go spend some time with one! Their energy and enthusiasm will rub off on you quickly.

    For example, do you remember just playing for hours and hours without reason, without explanation, simply because you wanted to? And then your reaction when your parents would make you stop.

    You might have said, “But please, just one more minute, one more game, one more chase, please!”

    This is where the importance of mindfulness comes into play.

    All of your existence was in that minute, that game, that chase.

    Being creative and being present are the same. Returning to the present moment enhances any experience, and we create a piece of art from scratch, that enhancement can mean the difference between enjoying the process and dreading it.

    Reflection goes a long way too. Digging deep and finding out those creative expressions that bring out a sense of joy and goodness is a mindfulness practice.

    Art is the same expression of play, a game of discovering joys. Whether painting, sculpting, drawing, writing, playing an instrument, or taking a photo, each artistic expression involves a discovery of joy.

    If we are lucky, we experience a flow state as a result.

    Do you remember when time would fly at the speed of light growing up? Games were played all day, friends were allies in the battle against monsters, and the playground became your endless OASIS.

    When did we become fools thinking this is a waste of time? What children do is the most valuable time. I for one love playing, whether it’s a sport or game, cards, chess, trampolines, and water balloons.

    This is what I think Picasso is saying: an artist’s mind is as playful and curious as a child’s, and he aimed to reach that place with every painting, drawing, and piece of art.

    Try something creative like a child today and fully immerse yourself in that experience. For me, writing these words and formulating my thoughts on this page puts me into a state of child-like flow.