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  • Reason

    Reason

    “Our civilization is still in a middle stage, scarcely beast, in that it is no longer wholly guided by instinct; scarcely human, in that it is not yet wholly guided by reason.”
    – Theodore Dreiser

    Instinct and reason both help advance the human species. However much of our evolution has relied on instinct as the primary driver for survival, we now rely on reason to propel us.

    Instinct is defined as an inborn pattern of behavior characteristic of a species and often a response to specific environmental stimuli.

    Reason, on the other hand, is the capacity to apply logic consciously by concluding new or existing information, to seek the truth. It is associated with such characteristically human activities as philosophy, science, language, mathematics, and art, and is normally considered a distinguishing ability humans possess.

    Reflection

    We are hard-wired to use both as a means of survival and evolution. There is a popular movement going on right now that concerns me, the movement away from reason, to act solely on impulse and instinct when guided by emotion and sensation.

    Because of this, I believe there is a greater need to practice mindfulness than ever before. Mindfulness is characterized by an awareness of oneself in isolation and with the world around them.

    If we reach a point where we use reason as a deduction and primary method of decision-making, we will inevitably make smarter, more mindful choices.

    This is a point reached with mindfulness practice, deep contemplation, and deliberate action.

    Such catalysts are meditation, gratitude, manifestation, deep conversation, open-minded thinking, and Tai Chi).

    One thing recently revealed to me that I started for the new year is Gratitude Manifestation.

    I’ll write a whole post on it soon, but basically, you express gratitude, on paper and out loud, for things and situations you want as if you already have them in your life.

    One of them for me is saying, “I am thankful for a place of my own, near the mountains, filled with plants and artifacts from around the world, good people, and tall, wide windows allowing sunlight to stream in like a river flowing”.

    I may not have this place yet in reality, but it’s clear and concise there in my mind whenever I look and recite it, and that holds the power to get it!

    Also, the more descriptive and imaginative the manifestations are the better. Just make sure they’re realistic enough to achieve too (a nice-sized apartment vs a 6-bed mansion).

    Instinct ought to be reserved as a survival mechanism for ourselves and others (like when we or someone else is in real danger and we can do something about it).

    This property of our mind, the human mind, has allowed us to evolve into such safe living today, without fear of a lion eating us or the cold freezing us. Our instinct is our safeguard and we do need to tend to it too.

    Such activities include camping, cold therapy like ice baths, heat therapy like saunas, strenuous exercise, and extreme sports.

    Instinct and Reason balance on a scale as close as life and death do, both necessary for the nourishment of life.

    This is a scale we must balance acutely though. We are more connected to the world than ever before and yet more disconnected from the person down the street.

    Instinct tells us to stay away and take care of ourselves, but reason says to connect and include that person in our life.

    Encouragement

    I encourage us to ask: “What does this balance look like in my life?”

    “Am I more guided by more feeling or thinking?” “Do I tend to act impulsive or mindfully? 

    This is no easy task, it takes practice to be reasonable, but the beauty is that it is obtainable! Keep meditating ya’ll!

    Thanks

    Thanks for reading these long, stream-of-consciousness posts ya’ll, your feedback keeps me writing them!

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    Links

    1. Theodore Dreiser | American Naturalist Novelist & Journalist
    2. The Instinct Definition: What It Is & the Science Behind It
    3. 9 Habits to Be a More Responsible Person
    4. How Gratitude Rewires Your Brain | Jim Kwik
  • Surprises

    Surprises

    “Man is a deterministic device thrown into a probabilistic universe. In this match, surprises are expected.”
    – Michael Lewis

    The only thing we can truly predict in this world is that the world will be unpredictable. This can scare some people, as we naturally don’t like surprises, but acceptance is the cure.

    Another way to describe this is with impermanence. The idea that everything changes, balancing, moving, and the only thing determined is our awareness of that change.

    When we step back and simply observe the world around us, we see impermanence in everything, from the clouds moving through the sky to the rain falling, not chasing, not transfixed.

    Reflection

    My understanding of surprises is that it is truly unknown, unseen, and unrecognizable, thus taking us off guard.

    Like a rainstorm that comes in the middle of the day, without any notice or warning (happens quite often in the mountains really).

    Surprises can be downright frustrating too as we get older we want little to no surprises, and then get flustered and confused when they arise.

    Surprises can be scary, say when we lose a loved one or find ourselves a near-death experience, and have to re-write our narrative in the aftermath.

    Surprises can be wonderful and joyous when we see someone we haven’t in years get a new job or are gifted something we’ve always wanted (likely during the holidays right now).

    But what surprises me about surprises is how surprised we are so often in our world today.

    I can’t think of any other time in human history when humans have been so distracted, so transfixed, and so dull, it’s surprising.

    Awareness of ourselves and the world around us doesn’t diminish the surprises, it gravitates them, to a state of real connection, like when the surprise of a gift is received and is cherished or when the surprise of a death is felt so deeply and remembered.

    Encouragement

    In mindfulness, surprises will still come and go, but there is a pattern of rolling with the punches (and kisses) if you will.

    I encourage us to seek understanding and empathy in our surprises, even when they frustrate, scare, enlighten, or brighten us.

    Try today to pause, even if it’s for 5 minutes, and follow the breath naturally changing in your body.

    Thanks

    I have been planning a drastic change in my life that in time would leave this blog and newsletter at a standstill for a while. I have been planning to thru-hike some of the longest trails in the US, embarking on a journey that anyone can follow on YouTube and Instagram.

    Thank you so much for reading my rambling, thinking mind. You can find all of my posts on the blog and even search for keywords and as always can support me over at buymeacoffee.com/mindfulnessand if you feel so inclined. Thank you in advance!

    Links

    1. Surprise! Why the Unexpected Feels Good, and Why It’s Good For Us
    2. Deterministic vs. Probabilistic Data: Which is Best?
    3. Give yourself permission to be creative
    4. Daughter’s death nearly stopped author Michael Lewis from writing again
  • Persistence

    Persistence

    “Thankfully, persistence is a great substitute for talent.”
    – Steve Martin

    I always thought Steve Martin was one of the most talented people in the world, which goes to show how his persistence and drive to be a better comedian, actor, musician, and visionary in the film industry has contributed to the very icon we see today.

    I’ve also always believed in this philosophy: do one thing for a little time (5 minutes each day) for a long time (years and years) and you can accomplish just about anything.

    Reflection

    From building a home to writing a book, the hardest part is getting started. We find ourselves so concerned with finishing a task when all we need to do is just get started.

    I like to compare persistence to a long arduous hike to the top of a mountain, you see the destination, you know how to get there, it just takes one step at a time and the drive to keep going.

    Any difficult task can be broken down into smaller parts, which can be broken down into even smaller parts.

    Elia M Ramollah has a beautiful quote for this: “Solve the big problems inside the small ones. And it is from small issues that a pattern can be shaped in solving the big ones.”

    The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language’s eighth definition of Persistence is my favorite: The continuance of an effect after the cause which first gave rise to it is removed.

    So, even when the motivation to start something difficult and the perseverance to keep at it dissipates, we continue anyway, like Rocky Balboa’s drive to be the greatest heavyweight champion, it was the process of pushing through that was the win, not the result.

    I found myself with this desire to write years ago but didn’t know where to start. Funny enough, the thing I was avoiding at the time (social media) happened to be just the outlet for this desire.

    Now, I write each day, in the smallest and grandest of ways, whether in a gratitude journal or adding to a novel about space travel (see a sneak peak at the bottom).

    All it took was a combination of persistence and forgiveness. If I couldn’t forgive myself when I fell off track then I wouldn’t ever get back to it.

    Encouragement

    For anyone looking to write more, I encourage us to stay persistent and write down our feelings, or a bullet list the day.

    Just carrying around a small notepad and pen to remember things is a great start.

    Writing has a host of benefits over typing or tapping. When we type, we use our fine motor skills in a more limited way than when we write by hand.

    Using a pen and paper is one of those things to help improve memory because it offers a deeper sensory experience than touching a keyboard or piece of glass. 

    Lastly, do what you love, and do it every day. Even if it’s for 5 minutes. Even if it’s just for you.

    Links

    1. How long does it take to form a new habit?
    2. Here’s Why You Remember Things Better When You Write Them Down
    3. Advice from Steve Martin
    4. How to Solve Big Problems
    5. 6 Effective Ways to Become Persistent

    Extra Extra

    So, that novel about space travel I was talking about? Well, it’s still in the works, but it’s called Enrail, and here’s a little sneak peak:

    I’m currently staring into space from the Enrail District Office #615 as I finish up some last-minute work on a Titan Holding shipment long overdue for pickup.

    The Outworld Order has taken control of our shipment center on the small Saturn moon, Dione and now we have to do as the Order says or we jeopardize our operation shutting down. Of the 82 moons, the Order has pretty much seized half, retaining over 80% control of the outer solar system.

    All that talk about the Empire in those Star Wars movies the first colonies used to fantasize about is now overwhelmingly real here in the year 3045. We are one of thousands of hyperspace shipment centers, what the hell would the Order want with our operation? An unrealistic acquisition for the Order, yet our district’s president, Kilean Enrail willingly sold the operations for under 2.3 million Zeitcoin.

    The fact is, this is going to be a long week ahead and I am too tired to handle it. The newest transmitters came in from Mars and we haven’t even had a chance to test them on the hyperspace station in the Xena District office, the busiest station this side of the cluster by far. And with the Order breathing down my neck, taxing every load, I won’t get a break to save my life, if it’s worth saving anyway.

    You see, the Order has a value generation on every citizen in the solar system, it can be very high, very low, or, well, not worth anything at all. My value generation is -564 to be exact, continually decreasing every day because of all the damn debts I owe to the damn Outworld Order. At this point, there’s an implausible price on my head and undeniable control of my possessions.

    At our Enrail District, we have about 300 or so Titan shipments every day, each handled by our robotics fleet. Every order is taken, processed, and delivered in less than an hour. With our operation, we rake in more than 230,000 Zeitcoin a month, which for its size is quite impressive. My role in this lucrative business shouldn’t be understated either, I’ve helped secure over 130 contracts in the past 5 years. The top “sales slave” in our district, but the Order is ready to take me to court over my damn value generation amount.

    The truth is, I have a plan, a strong ass will, and a modified Howletzer Cruiser ready to go within the next week. Let’s just hope I can slip by, pay my debts, and find a planet outside the Order until it’s time to escape.

    And speaking of escape, it’s quite crazy how much all those movies and books blow escape out of proportion, all it takes is the right timing…