Mindfulness &

how to be aware in an unaware world

Tag: meditation

  • Reason

    Reason

    “Our civilization is still in a middle stage, scarcely beast, in that it is no longer wholly guided by instinct; scarcely human, in that it is not yet wholly guided by reason.”
    – Theodore Dreiser

    Instinct and reason both help advance the human species. However much of our evolution has relied on instinct as the primary driver for survival, we now rely on reason to propel us.

    Instinct is defined as an inborn pattern of behavior characteristic of a species and often a response to specific environmental stimuli.

    Reason, on the other hand, is the capacity to apply logic consciously by concluding new or existing information, to seek the truth. It is associated with such characteristically human activities as philosophy, science, language, mathematics, and art, and is normally considered a distinguishing ability humans possess.

    Reflection

    We are hard-wired to use both as a means of survival and evolution. There is a popular movement going on right now that concerns me, the movement away from reason, to act solely on impulse and instinct when guided by emotion and sensation.

    Because of this, I believe there is a greater need to practice mindfulness than ever before. Mindfulness is characterized by an awareness of oneself in isolation and with the world around them.

    If we reach a point where we use reason as a deduction and primary method of decision-making, we will inevitably make smarter, more mindful choices.

    This is a point reached with mindfulness practice, deep contemplation, and deliberate action.

    Such catalysts are meditation, gratitude, manifestation, deep conversation, open-minded thinking, and Tai Chi).

    One thing recently revealed to me that I started for the new year is Gratitude Manifestation.

    I’ll write a whole post on it soon, but basically, you express gratitude, on paper and out loud, for things and situations you want as if you already have them in your life.

    One of them for me is saying, “I am thankful for a place of my own, near the mountains, filled with plants and artifacts from around the world, good people, and tall, wide windows allowing sunlight to stream in like a river flowing”.

    I may not have this place yet in reality, but it’s clear and concise there in my mind whenever I look and recite it, and that holds the power to get it!

    Also, the more descriptive and imaginative the manifestations are the better. Just make sure they’re realistic enough to achieve too (a nice-sized apartment vs a 6-bed mansion).

    Instinct ought to be reserved as a survival mechanism for ourselves and others (like when we or someone else is in real danger and we can do something about it).

    This property of our mind, the human mind, has allowed us to evolve into such safe living today, without fear of a lion eating us or the cold freezing us. Our instinct is our safeguard and we do need to tend to it too.

    Such activities include camping, cold therapy like ice baths, heat therapy like saunas, strenuous exercise, and extreme sports.

    Instinct and Reason balance on a scale as close as life and death do, both necessary for the nourishment of life.

    This is a scale we must balance acutely though. We are more connected to the world than ever before and yet more disconnected from the person down the street.

    Instinct tells us to stay away and take care of ourselves, but reason says to connect and include that person in our life.

    Encouragement

    I encourage us to ask: “What does this balance look like in my life?”

    “Am I more guided by more feeling or thinking?” “Do I tend to act impulsive or mindfully? 

    This is no easy task, it takes practice to be reasonable, but the beauty is that it is obtainable! Keep meditating ya’ll!

    Thanks

    Thanks for reading these long, stream-of-consciousness posts ya’ll, your feedback keeps me writing them!

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    Links

    1. Theodore Dreiser | American Naturalist Novelist & Journalist
    2. The Instinct Definition: What It Is & the Science Behind It
    3. 9 Habits to Be a More Responsible Person
    4. How Gratitude Rewires Your Brain | Jim Kwik
  • Persistence

    Persistence

    “Thankfully, persistence is a great substitute for talent.”
    – Steve Martin

    I always thought Steve Martin was one of the most talented people in the world, which goes to show how his persistence and drive to be a better comedian, actor, musician, and visionary in the film industry has contributed to the very icon we see today.

    I’ve also always believed in this philosophy: do one thing for a little time (5 minutes each day) for a long time (years and years) and you can accomplish just about anything.

    Reflection

    From building a home to writing a book, the hardest part is getting started. We find ourselves so concerned with finishing a task when all we need to do is just get started.

    I like to compare persistence to a long arduous hike to the top of a mountain, you see the destination, you know how to get there, it just takes one step at a time and the drive to keep going.

    Any difficult task can be broken down into smaller parts, which can be broken down into even smaller parts.

    Elia M Ramollah has a beautiful quote for this: “Solve the big problems inside the small ones. And it is from small issues that a pattern can be shaped in solving the big ones.”

    The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language’s eighth definition of Persistence is my favorite: The continuance of an effect after the cause which first gave rise to it is removed.

    So, even when the motivation to start something difficult and the perseverance to keep at it dissipates, we continue anyway, like Rocky Balboa’s drive to be the greatest heavyweight champion, it was the process of pushing through that was the win, not the result.

    I found myself with this desire to write years ago but didn’t know where to start. Funny enough, the thing I was avoiding at the time (social media) happened to be just the outlet for this desire.

    Now, I write each day, in the smallest and grandest of ways, whether in a gratitude journal or adding to a novel about space travel (see a sneak peak at the bottom).

    All it took was a combination of persistence and forgiveness. If I couldn’t forgive myself when I fell off track then I wouldn’t ever get back to it.

    Encouragement

    For anyone looking to write more, I encourage us to stay persistent and write down our feelings, or a bullet list the day.

    Just carrying around a small notepad and pen to remember things is a great start.

    Writing has a host of benefits over typing or tapping. When we type, we use our fine motor skills in a more limited way than when we write by hand.

    Using a pen and paper is one of those things to help improve memory because it offers a deeper sensory experience than touching a keyboard or piece of glass. 

    Lastly, do what you love, and do it every day. Even if it’s for 5 minutes. Even if it’s just for you.

    Links

    1. How long does it take to form a new habit?
    2. Here’s Why You Remember Things Better When You Write Them Down
    3. Advice from Steve Martin
    4. How to Solve Big Problems
    5. 6 Effective Ways to Become Persistent

    Extra Extra

    So, that novel about space travel I was talking about? Well, it’s still in the works, but it’s called Enrail, and here’s a little sneak peak:

    I’m currently staring into space from the Enrail District Office #615 as I finish up some last-minute work on a Titan Holding shipment long overdue for pickup.

    The Outworld Order has taken control of our shipment center on the small Saturn moon, Dione and now we have to do as the Order says or we jeopardize our operation shutting down. Of the 82 moons, the Order has pretty much seized half, retaining over 80% control of the outer solar system.

    All that talk about the Empire in those Star Wars movies the first colonies used to fantasize about is now overwhelmingly real here in the year 3045. We are one of thousands of hyperspace shipment centers, what the hell would the Order want with our operation? An unrealistic acquisition for the Order, yet our district’s president, Kilean Enrail willingly sold the operations for under 2.3 million Zeitcoin.

    The fact is, this is going to be a long week ahead and I am too tired to handle it. The newest transmitters came in from Mars and we haven’t even had a chance to test them on the hyperspace station in the Xena District office, the busiest station this side of the cluster by far. And with the Order breathing down my neck, taxing every load, I won’t get a break to save my life, if it’s worth saving anyway.

    You see, the Order has a value generation on every citizen in the solar system, it can be very high, very low, or, well, not worth anything at all. My value generation is -564 to be exact, continually decreasing every day because of all the damn debts I owe to the damn Outworld Order. At this point, there’s an implausible price on my head and undeniable control of my possessions.

    At our Enrail District, we have about 300 or so Titan shipments every day, each handled by our robotics fleet. Every order is taken, processed, and delivered in less than an hour. With our operation, we rake in more than 230,000 Zeitcoin a month, which for its size is quite impressive. My role in this lucrative business shouldn’t be understated either, I’ve helped secure over 130 contracts in the past 5 years. The top “sales slave” in our district, but the Order is ready to take me to court over my damn value generation amount.

    The truth is, I have a plan, a strong ass will, and a modified Howletzer Cruiser ready to go within the next week. Let’s just hope I can slip by, pay my debts, and find a planet outside the Order until it’s time to escape.

    And speaking of escape, it’s quite crazy how much all those movies and books blow escape out of proportion, all it takes is the right timing…

  • Time

    Time

    “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.”
    – Steve Jobs

    Looking at what Apple has become today, we can see that Steve’s vision has been more than realized since his death. He spent his time living his own life, doing what he loved: innovation and entrepreneurship.

    And he’s right, we only have so many waking hours in a day (about 14-16 hours), so why not use them efficiently?

    It’s less about the number of hours outside work and necessities than about utilizing those free hours available.

    Strangely, I find myself utilizing my free time most efficiently when I have a crunch time to do it (like 4 hours or so after or before work) (like Tim Ferriss famously advocates).

    Reflection

    As unproductive as it sounds, doing nothing allows us to be more efficient in all we do.

    It’s kin to an engine that runs all day and all night, for hours on end, without pause for oil and cooling. At that rate, it will overheat and burn out.

    The same applies to us, we must pause to replenish and restore our mind and body by, well, doing nothing.

    As we practice awareness, we find that balance between all that consumes our waking day, that balance of work, life, and all that falls through the cracks.

    Since I like to get personal on here, I’ll just lay out my day as an example. (My secret? Pen, Paper, and a little orange app called Streaks):

    07:00-08:00
    *Wake Up
    *3min Cold Shower
    *Workout
    Meditation
    Journal
    Vitamins, Minerals, and Breakfast

    08:00-18:00
    Work
    Protein, Carbs, and Lunch

    18:00-22:00
    *Swim and 40min Sauna
    Fruits, Veggies, and Dinner
    Blog Post & Electronic Mix
    *Practice Spanish
    *Meditation
    Read for an hour
    Wind Down

    I’ve starred the activities I need to focus on much more as this is my ideal day, not necessarily my every day right now.

    Something to keep in mind is when we miss an activity, it’s much better to forgive ourselves and focus on getting it done the next day rather than stress out and beat ourselves up over it (at least that’s what I do).

    Encouragement

    Try pausing a few times throughout the day, even for 3-5 minutes, to notice how the mind and body feel.

    Write down a rough draft of what you want to accomplish throughout the day, starting with the items you need to especially focus on.

    Do you feel you’ve gained a little more awareness of where your time is going?

    Thanks

    I’m changing things up a little here by shooting for shorter posts and aiming to release them at a more consistent rate.

    Thank you for reading these and emailing me all the encouragement ya’ll! I realize that not everyone has the time to read, so I’m working on audio versions of these posts that I hope will turn into a podcast soon, so stay tuned!

    Links

    1. Revisiting “The 4-Hour Workweek” | The New Yorker
    2. 5 Science-Backed Ways Taking a Break Boosts Our Productivity | HuffPost Life
    3. Streaks App
    4. Tim Ferriss: Smash fear, learn anything | TED Talk